Is it wrong to pressure someone with marriage?
If you can’t love them, really love them unless you have some type of security so you know they’re not gonna break up with you and your going to get hurt. Last time i almost killed myself. But if you know they love you, and have every intention on being with you for a long long time and just randomly hate marriage (for you twilight readers, like bella and how it made no sence why she wouldn’t marry him…)
Is it wrong to pressure them, then?
It’s not constructive to “pressure” someone into something they are uncomfortable with. A constructive way to go about the situation is discuss your respective views and talk about how they can be reconciled.
On the one hand, marriage is not a guarantee that this person is not going to break up with you; plenty of marriages end in divorce. Whether you’re married or not, anytime you love someone, you’re taking a risk – a huge risk; there’s no way around it. If you don’t want to get hurt, don’t get involved in a relationship – period.
That said, there are reasons why you might want to be married – be it legal, social or emotional reasons. If your partner is against marriage *in principle*, which is what it sounds like from your description, it won’t do you any good to “pressure” him/her to abandon their principles – just as you feel strongly about marriage being desirable, they probably feel just as strongly that it is undesirable. It has more to do with emotion than with reason, so rational arguments are unlikely to have any effect. You *can* try and reason with the person, but you have to formulate for yourself what your plan of action is going to be if this person sticks to their guns. Are you willing to stay in the relationship even if marriage is not in the picture? Or would you choose to walk away? You need to proceed with this decision in mind.
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